venerdì 18 maggio 2012
We Aim To Displease, Miss Steele
All of those are nothing but slight variations of old and vaguely stale concepts, sold top us for the millionth time by media and brain washers that are lacking ideas.
Theres always been lack of jobs, hope and poverty. The future, and by future i am speaking of amll goals, like the week after, has always been hazy and confused. The current state of economy in most countries is just one of the various tragic moments that are inevitably occurring after years of indefference, neglect, and self centered, slef absorbed actions. In laymen term: if you only think of your own immediate gratfication for years, with no interest or regard for rules, other people, society and a minimal decency, you will be eaten in the end. And being that man is a negative animal, it is just obivious that after a constant craving for feeding on each other we are now spiraling into despair. What really has changed now is Concepts.
Words, connected to meanings.
One of the few notions i studied in Sociology that actually stuck with me is how language and human interactions are strictly connected. We, as humans, think through language and words. And by those words we create concepts that shape our thoughts and lives and the ways we behave. To put it even stronger : It doesn not matter how we THINK we behave in life or to others or what our safe beliefs arte. Its how we perceive the concept behind those that counts. And there are no wrong or right mindsets. Only mindsets that could or could not clash with the ones that society has deemed acceptable. Which is the real problem.
Think about how many layers this simple word has on its own. Think how , in your own personal experience, you probvably cannot grasp what it ecxactly is. Nowadays, it has become a word that has been neutered and deprived of its powered by sheer overuse. You can read, hear, talk and interact with people that think "love" is some sort of idealistic force present in any human being, with an unlimited power to improve the world, solve any situation and turn dystopias into utopia. So you can hear people talking about how "love is stronger than hate", hoiw everything can be worked out or won through love.
Fact is: love is rare. It isnt a natural instinct for most. People arent born loving. Not even mothers love unconiditionally. A mother loves her son, because it represnts a part of her, something that she has put an effort iunto creating. A phsysical maniofestation of part of her life. And let's face it: parents love their sons because thyre a possible investment of ego, money and dreams of immortality: Ypou have children, because you want to see yourself mirrored into them, give them ideas to grow with, have them act in a certain eway that you shaped and constructed into their malleable minds. But it isnt the unconditional or pure feeling that a lot of the modern naives have. Some animals feel a connection towards other being that is close to apure love. Most humans dont. It isnt in our nature to do so.
But, once ina lifetime, and this is my point, that it happens rarely and it has to be treasured, since it might not happen again, you might find another person who simply copnnects with you, gfills the gap in your spirit, helps life get a meaning.
In your mind your own natural instincty of self preservation is erased. You put this person before yoursefl. Because they ARE a part of you and your wrold. ANd your world withotu them would have no sense at all. THAT is love. Now using that same concept for anything else, is diminsihing. You can feel affection. Interest, warmth. Not Love.
In a chemically opposite way, theres a misuse of this word which is equally as powerful. Hate is a poweful force that drives a human beign through life as much as love and more than any belief. Whats really behind a lot of religiously motivated action, is hate. Its not the belief in politics, god or the absence of such. Its the energy and power of hatred.
It's focusing your energy to destroy someone, or a lifestyle or an entire group of people. It might not be violent at all, it can be just a verbal, quiet slow corrosion of their peace and living. Its still hate. Hate is a force that substains peopel that have an empoty heart. The desperate and the broken will never find love, most of the time. They will find a belief. But what that belief weill teach them will not be a strength that they will find in themselves. That would be futile. A broken person doesnt fix herself with her own hand. WHat they need is an enemy, a sense of righteous disgust: Hate. That makes them live, feel superior, feel revitalized. And survived. And its much more in human's nature, since humans are vile and destructive. Still. Hate is now a weakened almost pathetic word. Which is making people loose sight of where it really is.
A disagreement is not hate.
A criticism is not hate.
An angry, even sarcastic answer is not hate. In differtence is annoying but is not hate. None of the aforementioned people are hatrers.
BUT a person that is constatly bent on being the cenre of attention, and accuses of being "Haters" all the peoiple that slightly perturb this degocentrical fanstasy IS full of hate. Words make concepts. And Concepts are the only truth.
Family, Faith and Normality
First, society has forced a concept of family on people that is based on a dysfunktional idea.
The traingle Mother/Father/Children isnt nevcessarily the right, positive choice. It can be in the highest number of chances a receptacle of bitterness, violence (psyuchological or phsysical) and mistakes. We feel forced coonection with people that are tied to us with blood, and oftren those peopl,ewill destroy us. We have the diseased idea that only through proxcreation and a nuclear family we will be able to reacha positive life. Most of the time forcing that option will cause bitterness and pain. And also the type of pain that will be unleashed on innocent ones
Faith. I am an atheist and as one, you think i have no beliefs. That is wrong. I do not belief in any form pof treligion that tries to tell me that i have to bow down to an impalpable, non-existence presence to handle my life. I refuse to be part of beliefs that use such invisble idea ads a back up for their own dysfucntions. But that also includes the average condescendinty atheist that uses its own sense of mental suyperioty to be cruel and condescending to others.
I have faith and belief and complete trust into what is good for me. What makes me happy and makes my life worth living. Music The eprson i love, to whom i would give my life at any minute. And myself. I subscribe to that as my normality: Your idea of normality is corruptedc, crippled and fuill of doubts.
You are all freaks.
End of argument